Why always trying to figure out the answer? The real work is to be aware when the thoughts drift to figure out the solution, or, when we make up ways of how to control the situation.
Just be aware, and that’s enough, and that’s already the work. Just relax into the question. Sit down, set an intention to receive an answer to your question, let go and just meditate for 20 minutes.
How about simply being present, see clear, do what has to be done now at this very moment, and do it. Clear mind, surrender, and start to listen instead of searching.
How about trust, surrender and acceptance?
Malcolm Southwood, a healer in Basel, said, the answer is there always first, then we make up the question.